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The Most Raucous, Mystical, Sensual All-Night Wedding New York City Has Ever Seen
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The Most Raucous, Mystical, Sensual All-Night Wedding New York City Has Ever Seen

An ephemeral encounter in the sands of Burning Man leads two men on an enchanting spiritual journey toward a perfectly polyamorous love story.

Stefanie Iris Weiss
Feb 09, 2016
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They met on the dance floor at Burning Man.

Michel Madie, a 57-year-old French Jew of Algerian descent, a former veterinarian, and a real estate mogul in New York City. Rasmus Foyer, a 27-year-old Swedish civil engineering student with an open heart and a talent for fire dancing. Their thirty-year age-difference was a minor challenge when compared to all that would stand in the way of their love: geographical distance, sexual orientation, and the vagaries of technology and time.

Michel and Rasmus’ encounter might have been as fleeting as any other in Black Rock City, where the desert sands often act as the pixie dust of love at first sight. Thousands of people fall into instantaneous, erotic rapture with fellow travelers during this annual experimental desert arts festival with radical self-expression at its core, only to go back to their workaday lives alone. But fate’s hand interceded for Michel and Rasmus and it could not be ignored: On December 12th, 2015,…

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